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In 1977, she went on to speak to the Los Angeles County, the Los Angeles City Council in favor of gay rights. From there, she became the first full-time gay parent. In 1981, Adele became the Founder and the President of the Federation of Parents for Lesbians and Gays. She's a very soft spoken, very gentle, nice, very funny woman, and we're very happy to have her. She's addressed the National Social Studies Teaching Association, she's also spoken to the American Psychological Association, the nation, Deaf Women's Conference, she spoke there last time, and she's spoken to so many universities and she's done so much good for us. Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome to Adele Starr.\r\n\r\n- Good evening, everyone. Can you hear me? This is a return to Des Moines. Larry and I, my husband and I were here five years ago. And Monica gave you a brief summary of how my son told me that he was gay, and so forth, and made it sound very easy. But believe me, it wasn't an easy road. And I wanna share my story with you because I think that when one becomes active in the Gay Rights Movement, I don't want you to... I want you to realize that I'm just a little housewife who found herself involved in all this, and when I think of it, I just can't believe it sometimes. Our story goes back 21 years ago when Philip was 18. And was accepted to the University of Santa Cruz, the University California at Santa Cruz which was considered very, a real nice... Was real nice to be able to be accepted to there. And it was all, it was August, and he was planning to go away, and everything was just, seemed fine in our home. We have five children. At that time our three youngest were only eight and six, and Larry and I and our two little ones were out. We came home on a Sunday afternoon and there was a note for us, \"Dear mother and dad \"I am a homosexual, and I have left home. \"I will be in touch with you in a few days\". That's how not to come out to your parents. Well, what happened was we went... It was, you can imagine. It's difficult today, you can imagine how it was 21 years ago. We called our pediatrician, and he recommended a psychiatrist. And we thought this was an illness, and he could be cured, and all that stuff. Philip went very willingly. He transferred instead of going up to Santa Cruz, transferred to UCLA, and went to a psychiatrist. And then when he saw the pain he had given us, he simply pretended that he had been, quote, cured. He graduated from UCLA, and we realized that we weren't seeing much of him. He was sort of not around much, and that something was not quite right. And finally one day, with his brother supporting him by his side, he came to us and he did say, \"Mother and dad, let's stop kidding ourselves, \"I cannot change. \"If we're to have a meaningful relationship \"you people are gonna have to change\". And with that, with tears coming down my eyes, because it was like opening up the whole thing again, he said, he says, \"You know my friends Sherry?\" And I said, \"Yes.\" He says, \"Her stepmother recently found out \"that she has a gay daughter.\" And in those days we didn't say lesbian. \"That she has a gay daughter \"and she seems to be taking it quite well. \"Would you like to talk to her?\" And before I could answer, he had her on the phone. And we talked for about one hour, and I can say that that was the turning point for me. Meeting another parent, it made all the difference in the world. Because I knew our son was a wonderful person, of the five children growing up, four sons and a daughter, he was the one who always seemed to make peace in the family. He was the one who got 12 units for college at the end of high school, he was an honor student. He was almost... I suppose one thing that he d... He was too serious maybe growing up, because we didn't know what was bothering him. And so, this other parent and myself became friendly. And then I met the parents, Jeanne and Jules Manford, for who had started, they were the first people who started any groups in New York City in '73, I think they. Anyway I met them in '74, and one thing led to another, and we finally had a group growing in Los Angeles, in March '76 when 35 people showed up at our home. And for those of you who think LA everything goes in LA, I want you to know that we were a little scared even then, because we had heard of some gay person being hurt or killed, or something or other, and letting our house open for that. But nothing happened. And what should happen I suppose, was the start of our group. After that we found ourselves a nice church, or we found a few places. So we found a church that would accept us, the United Methodist Church has always been very supportive, and we had our monthly meetings there. And when we first started meeting in '76, we weren't out to change the world. We were out just to get support for ourselves, to have to be able to share our stories, and help each other. And what we learned was when we'd, we'd used have little rap groups, we started with one then we'd have, maybe had two. And as we went around, talking about our children and telling our stories, what evolved was that we had the best bunch of kids that there were. All our children seem to be trying, a little more sensitive, more understanding. We looked at each other with pride, and I guess what was happening in Los Angeles was also happening in other cities around the country. And as a result of all of this of our own observations, we came up with some of our own conclusions. And I won't say that they're our Bible, but we believe pretty much in them. And scientists in recent years are confirming what we, what evolved then. There are three things that we have learned. One is that it's simply a natural phenomenon. It's natural for about 10% of our population to be attracted to the same sex. And when I say 10% that means about one out of four families. And one out of four families is about 9%, has a gay family member. Now of course, it would be great if everyone that had a gay family member knew it. Unfortunately, we must remember that some families have small children. Some kids born today, were gonna be gay. They are gay, and will evolve in puberty, or later. And so they aren't aware of their children's sexuality. Except we don't know about them. And then there were so many families where the son or the daughter, for one reason or another, has been afraid to come out, but it is natural for that 10% of our population. The second thing that we learned was that nobody chooses to be gay. The only choice is whether or not to tell the family, the parents, and so forth. But nobody decides one day, well, today I'm gonna be gay. It just doesn't happen like that, as most of you probably know, or a good number of you know that. Most gay people struggle with their sexuality for years before they even come to terms with it themselves. We know many men and women who marry, trying to suppress their natural feelings, and years later have to end up in a divorce. I remember Philip telling me, \"Mother, I could get married. \"I could have a family, but where will it all end? \"I will ruin another person's life. \"My children will probably be taken from me. \"Do you want me to have that kind of a life?\" I'm happy to say that Philip and Mike have been together now for 15 years. They met before AIDS, thank God. And Michael is treated in our home, he's another son. He's accepted by all of our children. He and Philip were ushers at our daughter's wedding a few months ago. It's no big deal in our family. Another thing that we have learned, and this is a very important thing for parents to learn because of what the society has done to us, there is no pattern to the kind of family that has a gay child. We come from every kind of background. We have every ethnic group, Republican, Democrat rich, poor, race, religion, of the temperament of the parents, the number of children in the family, there is no pattern. Society has said that it's bad, and they blame parents. And I think that it's terrible what they have done to us. I think one of the reasons I became so involved was I remember those five years when we didn't talk to anyone. From the age of his, Philip's age, 18 till the age of 23, when we just didn't talk to anyone about our son's sexuality, and felt that we were keeping a dark secret, that couldn't share it with anyone, and tormenting each other in a very happy marriage. And wondering what did I do, and my husband wondering what did he do? Maybe never outwardly blaming each other, but thinking of reasons and stuff like that. And yet we have four other children who aren't gay. So these are the things that parents go through. There's a great deal of guilt, and a great deal of shame. And as we learn to understand more about homosexuality, and understand our children, we realize that we have nothing to be ashamed about. The shame is simply out there with a very misinformed society. I suppose that's why I have become so involved, because I was never a woman to speak before an audience. I was an English major at school. and went back to get my degree while raising my family, and was immersed in books a lot. But somehow when we started our Movement. I just felt we had to speak. If we don't speak, who will. And as I started to speak, I found people listened, whether it was an audience, or just one-to-one, people are anxious to listen to what we have to say. We opened it up. Just coming here today, I had to cha... I came from Los Angeles, had to change flights in Denver. So I was on two flights. And, but both times I had women sitting, one was a woman of my peer. I'd say she was visiting her daughter and grandchildren, and the second time was a young mother with her young son. Both of them happened to ask where I was going and so forth, and so I came out to both of them just today. Everyday is like some other kind of coming out day. And each of them had something... One said, \"Oh, that's wonderful what you're doing.\" And another one took the trouble to say, \"Oh my cousin was in the AIDS walk in New York.\" We've always had positive experiences in our own coming out. I also wanted to say that we also have to remember to talk about the right to love. We feel very strongly in our Parents Movement that we should all have the right to love. And for some people, since it's natural to be attracted to the same sex they should have that same right that we all, the rest of us, take for granted. How we use our sexuality, using it in a responsible way is what we consider important. But we feel the same standards that go for one go for the other. I know there's been a lot of talk about homosexuality, homosexuals being promiscuous, males especially. Well, you know how I feel about it? I think that society has a lot to do with that. We don't allow gay people to marry. We don't give them social settings where they can meet other people, like our other children do. We force them to meet... They lower their self-esteem tremendously, so that sometimes the only way they can meet anyone of the same, who is also gay, is with a drink. So they meet at bars. They drink too, but some of them drink too much as a result. We force them into these lurid places, and then we accused them of being sinners, promiscuous. Society's attitude is what has to change. And of course, I would say in the Parents Movement, I felt we were making pretty good progress, as I and other parents have spoken in various areas, and wherever we'd have a little win, we think it was great for, and when I spoke before the APA, I was one of a panel, and the American Psychology Association, that is, said they were gonna give us some press that year. And so there was an article in the New York Times, and a couple of other papers. And oh, oh, you can't believe the ecstasy that we all had when we saw that kind of publicity. Even Dr. Judd Morman had something to say. He was at a conference. So, all this is, that we're doing, is very important and it's very great. What has hurt our Movement in some ways although we're trying to use it, for the benefit of our children to talk about homosexuality, of course AIDS. AIDS hit the gay community. It is a nightmare. I don't know what to say. Families that we have spoken to, families that we have helped, families that have lost a lot of loved ones. People that I met in the gay community over the last 15 years, there's a long list of those who have died too soon. It's bad enough to lose so many of our loved ones, so many wonderful young people. It's like losing a whole war, people. It makes me think of when I lost my brother in the Second War, it's terrible. And we just hope, we're waiting for it to end. But on top of that, the gay community is also hurt by the nasty remarks from people who say, \"Well, they deserve it.\" How many people say that? I don't know where they're coming from. And yet I don't like to bring this up, but I feel a lot of it is coming from those who are using religion, as if they have, as if they have, it's therapy private domain. Within the Parents Movement, we have many religious parents, ministers, former ministers, retired ministers, who are active in the Movement, and we are well-represented. If anyone has any problem, a religious problem, I know what it's like to go, 'cause what I would say in talking to parents. Like on the hotline over the years, meeting people, and so forth, getting calls from young men and women who wanna come out to their parents, the hardest cases to deal with to get family communication going, family acceptance is from those who come from ultra conservative fundamentalist families. Because unfortunately I think sometimes the parent is accused of being a sinner too, rather than being helped by their minister. And it really bothers me. It's just, I don't think that's what religion is all about. I know as a parent, I think the greatest sin would be to turn against one's child. And the next greatest sin would be to turn against one's neighbor, one's friends. It's just not right. And... Now, I was asked to speak this evening about coming out to your family. Now I'm going to ask, I don't wanna put anyone on the spot, but if you feel comfortable enough in this friendly audience how many of you have come out to your family? Well.\r\n\r\n- Yeah.\r\n\r\n- All right, the next question. How many of you have had a problem since coming out? Clap for that.\r\n\r\n- Ed, no, I'm not gonna applaud that. How many of you have it... Is everything okay within the family? Yeah, well, that's good. How many of your parents, where it's okay, are involved in the Parents Movement? Don't all raise your hands too soon. Well, we'd like you to get involved in the Parents Movement. We have with us today too, another parent is here. Jamie Clenchard is our regional director from this area. And later on, we very much like any of you, who have parents in the area, to give her name and the address to her, and she will let you know about meetings, and how to get involved with our national federation. We have parent groups and contacts in probably maybe a hundred cities across America probably more, if you count all the contacts in that, and we do very good work on helping people on the phone. As I said earlier, it meant so much to me when I first met another parent who had someone to talk to. And I know that nothing, no psychologist, nothing takes the place of parent-to-parent contact. You're just not alone anymore. Those of you who've come out to your parents and you've still had a problem, have you have been, have you made an effort to get them in touch with other parents? And even if they're comfortable with it, have you made an effort to get them in touch with some of us? How would you feel if you were the only gay person in this city? Won't you feel isolated? That's how your parents feel. They're not gonna talk to anyone, most of them. I mean, there are always exceptions, but the average parent, they're not gonna tell anyone their secret. Yes, they love you, and that loves the sustains them, keeps them going, but they have to learn to understand what it's all about, because this does not have to be a problem in the family. You know, I can say, and as my journey has been over a period of years, but I can truthfully say that today that having a gay son is a blessing. Because of Philip, I have learned about a whole group of people that I didn't even know existed. And if I thought of them as existing, it was only in a sort of, well, they are those kind of people, you know, not in a very nice sort of way. So I feel blessed. It's made me a better human being. And I can tell you this, that the love, the respect, the ones that the gay community has shown my husband and me, is that, I can't describe it even. We have been given all kinds of citations, and awards, and for what? You know, it's very nice, I appreciate it all, but I'm just doing, I'm a parent. I'm just doing what comes natural for parents, trying to do something about having people understand my son for whom he truly is, a wonderful human being. I would like, when we're talking about, since so many of you have already come out, I don't see any point in giving you the do's and don'ts, unless you think you'd like me to. Should I?\r\n\r\n- Yes.\r\n\r\n- Yeah.\r\n\r\n- You would? Okay, all right. We all know that if you're in school and you're dependent on your parents, maybe it's not a good idea to come out. 'Cause not all parents will support their children, even if they don't understand. It takes a great deal of love. And I don't know... We did it, I mean, we would never think of... It's unconditional love, as far as I'm concerned with our children. So but if you're dependent on them, and they don't think, then I wouldn't advised you to just right off tell them. But if you have reached a point in your life where you are ready to, or when you reach that point, and you wanna tell your parents that you're gay or lesbian, there are some do's an don'ts. The responsibility to do so is yours. I'm not gonna tell you when to do it, or if you should do it, it's yours. But I will say this, don't tell your parents unless you're prepared to see them through what might be a difficult time until they learn to understand what it's all about. Just to tell them and run isn't gonna work. You know, I have noticed that many gay people at an early age, when I say gay, I mean lesbian too, at an early age, they learn to be very silent about their sexuality, because they learn at an early age that people don't like it. So they keep quiet about it, and they don't talk. And finally, one day they do is tell mother and dad, \"I'm gay,\" and mother says, \"Okay son, okay. \"All right but let's not talk about it.\" And what happens? The gay person simply doesn't talk about it. He's accustomed to being silenced, so he's silent. He or she continues the silence for another five years. What you need to do is not be silent about it. You need to help your parents, you need to give them the information. We have all kinds of booklets back there. You need to give them that. If there's a parent contact in your area you need to tell them about it. You need to put them in touch with... You need to have a phone there of someone to call for your parents to talk to, just like Philip told me, got me on that phone. They may fight it, they may not, the first time you ask, do it! But keep talking about it, because that's part of the job. For the short run it's difficult, but in the long run, look what you have to gain. If my son had been silent, we would've lost each other. He would have lost out on our family, and his brothers and his sister, and we would have drifted away from each other. And what would I have lost too? I would have lost my wonderful son. And look, I wouldn't have been involved in all this. So it's very important really to, if you can, to come out to your family for that reason. I think it's... Don't tell your family if you're going home for Christmas holiday, Thanksgiving, when mother's busy preparing big dinner for 25 people. That's no time to talk about somethings so intimate, so personal. What you need to do is find a quiet time. Make sure the parents aren't having other problems. If someone's sick, or your dad just lost a job, or someone else in the family got a big problem, then wait. But when you can find a quiet time then take mother and dad sit them down, and let them know about yourself. First, let them know that you love them, and you could let them know you're counting on their love to sustain them, while they learn to understand. Our love for our children I think is our biggest strength. And sometimes gay people don't realize how much their parents do love them. Your self esteem gets kinda shot and you think, well, that's gonna be that way with the folks too, and they may surprise you. So, don't be afraid to count on that love, and let them know that they didn't do anything wrong, that they've given you a good life, and that you love them. And you know your college students, you're doing well. They're proud of you, and then let them know what you're going through. How long it took you to come to terms with yourself. Be firm, don't let them think this is something that's temporary. Today you're gay, and tomorrow you're gonna be something else. You know, you're gay! You cannot change. They have to know that, because if they think that you can change, then they'll take it this is just a temporary thing, phase in your life. Once it gets through their head that this is who you are, and you're communicating tell them that, like Philip did with me, you brought them up, were brought up to be honest with them and with others. You know, parents like to hear that. And it's true, so nobody should have to lead a dual life. It's bad enough that you may have to hide who you are in your employment. And you're not gonna walk around with a sign saying I'm gay, you know, wherever you go. But at least at home you should be able to be relaxed about who you are. I think with that kind of a beginning, and then getting them to some parents, follow up with parents, and not letting them go into their closet 'cause frequently what, you've heard that expression, I'm sure, children come out of their closet to their parents, and parents then go into their closet. Our Parents FLAG Organization is here to see that parents stay out of their own closets. Isn't it Jeanne?\r\n\r\n- Yeah.\r\n\r\n- Yeah. And so, I'd like to, I think at this point let you ask me some questions because I can go on. You know, I'd like to be able to answer your questions this evening rather than just ramble on at this point. Any questions? Nope, do you want me to go on?\r\n\r\n- Mm-hmm.\r\n\r\n- Back there.\r\n\r\n- Yeah, I came out to both my parents, and I told my brother. And I've been debating for a while now thinking about coming out-\r\n\r\n- Wait, I can hardly hear you.\r\n\r\n- Oh.\r\n\r\n- You came out to your parents and your brother.\r\n\r\n- Yeah, my parents and my brother all, both know about me. And I've been debating coming out to my sister for a while now. And my sister is 17 years old, and she is really naive, and she hasn't figured it out even though is been plainly obvious. Her best friend knows about me, and so my sister already has someone she can talk to. I'm really not quite sure though if I should be coming out to her, or so how I should go about it. 'Cause we're not like, we're not extremely close. It's very awkward, because she's extremely naive, and may never-\r\n\r\n- Well, this applies not only to sisters, it can apply to parents too. No matter how many indications or signals you may give that you're gay, people will not pick up on it, unless you come out and tell them. Because I think if you're not telling them then you're maybe not so sure. At 17, it would seem to me, naive and not naive, she's probably would be able to understand it quite well. Our own daughter was in high school when I became very active in the Gay Rights Movement, and we felt we needed to tell her. My Andy and Margaret were like 13 and 15, say when we told them. And the 13-year-old, our daughter at that time was kinda young, but by the time she was 15 and 16, she was in social studies class defending gay rights. And yeah, and not only that, but I remember a young man, one of her peers, followed her out after class and he said, \"Margo, I'd like to talk to you for a minute.\" And she said, \"What is it?\" He said, \"You know,\" he said, \"my parents are divorced.\" And she says, \"Yeah, I know that.\" And so having, and the school where she was going the dinosaurs where the families that stayed together. There were a lot of divorcing going on, and she's 27 now. And this event proceeded and he says, \"But I never told you why.\" And then for the next half hour he talked about his mother who was a lesbian. He had someone to share it with. So I think teenage daughters, sisters, are very understanding, and unless you've had a very bad relationship with her, or something, I think you could share that with her. We have some other?\r\n\r\n- I was wondering how comfortable the men feel in these parents groups. I can see, my mother is very comfortable but I told my father about my being gay,\r\n\r\n- Mm-hmm.\r\n\r\n- and my younger sister's gay. But I can't see my dad with some Oh, some of our fathers are very active in the Movement. In Los Angeles, we have many, we even have some fathers on the Hotline, and nationally on our Board of, we have all kinds of fathers. In fact, I think our Board is controlled by fathers. Our Chairman of the Board is an attorney from New York. The newsletter editor is a retired attorney from Washington. My husband had been the treasurer until a couple of years ago, he's a CPA. And a lot of activity amongst fathers too. Yeah, if one parent gets involved, usually it rubs off on the other. Yeah, okay. Yes?\r\n\r\n- How many groups do you have nationwide? And do you have a list there that I-\r\n\r\n- How many groups do we, do we have nationwide?\r\n\r\n- Do you have a listing?\r\n\r\n- We have, in our directory, probably around 75 groups. Some of them are very small but they are groups, and we have maybe another 75 contacts and as many different areas. You'd be surprised how a little group makes a big difference. In a small town it could be just two people but if there is some thing in the newspaper they don't like, if a minister speaks out or something, they're protesting it. They're speaking up about it. They'll speak to school board. There's a lot of activity going on in little areas in pockets around the country by the parents. In some cases, I suppose it's a little easier for parents to speak out, than for gays and lesbians, because we sort of bridge that gap between the gay community and the community at large. And for instance, in Los Angeles many years ago, when, for instance, I spoke with before the City Council for when we had our gay rights ordinance passed, I think we had enough votes to pass it, or they wouldn't have bought that before the 15-member Council. But because I spoke, because the parents spoke, a few, they had more than the majority, it was like a two-thirds vote in favor of the Council. And I remember afterwards, when we left the hall there, there was one group of people had been busted by a ultra conservative group, a religious group. And the woman, the leader of this group was very annoyed with me, and she cursed me, which of course I didn't think was very Christian. Yeah. But she was a... But that to us, it meant that they were really scared of parents getting involved in the Movement. because who are we parents, you know. We're parents, and we want those people to know that yes we are parents, and we're concerned parents. And by God, we're not gonna put up with what they're doing to our children. So we're being heard. I wish more of us were being heard, but we'll get there. Yeah.\r\n\r\n- I have two questions. I'm a recovering child of fundamentalism. And I'm also bisexual, and I wonder if you have any particular hints for children of fundamentalists? And-\r\n\r\n- Do I have any particular what?\r\n\r\n- Like, hints. Hints?\r\n\r\n- Or help you know, things to help. And also do you work with families of bisexuals, or parents of bisexuals?\r\n\r\n- Well, number one is, I would say fundamentalist parents are still parents, and they loved their children dearly. The children, you have to be aware that the struggle for them is probably even very difficult, because they're not getting support from their church. But just to remember, they love you, and they have to work a little harder with them, that's all. But you do have to get them involved with other parents. You have to just work, you know. Should, it's... The road may be... We have had a Baptist minister at one time helping, but then he retired, and told us to remove his name from the list, but they care about their children. Parents are parents, and the religion is good too. Is just, I'm not knocking the religion, I'm just knocking some of the people who use that religion to hurt our children. And the second part of your question was about bisexuals, okay. I realize, we realized there are a whole bunch of people out there who are smack in the middle. Kinsey had a scale of zero to six. He put most of us at one end, a certain percentage at the other end, and in between, he said there were varying degrees. I'm not gonna argue that. However, I will say this, we have enough trouble dealing with helping all those people at this end who are gay and are being insulted, harassed, don't get along with family, and so forth, that we don't take up the cause of bisexuals. That's something you have to deal with, I mean, but, if you tell your parents you're bisexual they're gonna be in limbo, and they're not gonna, most of the times that they're gonna feel you can make up your mind. It's a whole nother category. And I have heard especially women say that they are bisexual, and I'm not gonna say you're not, or, you know, certainly you are what you are.\r\n\r\n- Okay, but that's wrong, it's a hard place to be. I think it is. I must admit that I don't know anyone, for instance who's gay, who's come to me and said \"I in a very good permanent relationship now. \"And I am bisexual\". Somehow there's seems to be so sort of a contradiction on. I don't know, an ambiguity there. So. Any other questions? Sure, you must have some more questions.\r\n\r\n- I'd just like to comment.\r\n\r\n- Yeah. Adele, one of the parents' in our groups comes from a very fundamentalist state, and she has three children, a lesbian daughter, a gay son, and straight son, and she says that she has one week.\r\n\r\n- Currently?\r\n\r\n- Yeah, I wouldn't consider. And I asked her how her religion's with it. She is quite, quite basic in her religious statement.\r\n\r\n- Change in, okay. She has said that God gave her a family to be thankful for as well, and that she still very active and involved with her church. So you know, the love is there.\r\n\r\n- I'd like to, I could tell you a little bit about our family, and it's coming out and so forth. We have a lot of little stories. I remember my husband, he has a lot of clients in the moving and storage industry. He's in public accounting as a CPA. And when I got involved, we used to go every year to a California Moving and Storage Association Convention. And as I became involved, he would say to me, \"Adele,\" when we go to the Convention, \"please, don't talk about your involvement.\" And I'd say, \"Well, look, I'm not gonna lie. \"I'm not gonna just go around saying I have a gay son. \"But if someone asks me about Philip,\" and they've known our children in the all the growing up years, \"I'm going to simply answer them.\" And of course it would always happen that I would say something. We know you will.\r\n\r\n- But you wanna know even what we so-called macho industry, we have had people, he has had some clients call me to ask me to help. Like one said his daughter was a lesbian, and the mother was having a hard time understanding would I speak to her. Another one went out of his way to let him know that he hired, he had two gay men working for him, and he didn't believe in discriminating and stuff like that. The first time I spoke publicly, a long time ago, was at the Metropolitan Community Church in San Fernando Valley, which is for those of you who know it's part of the Gay and Lesbian Church founded by Reverend Troy Perry, who was a fundamentalist, came from the fundamentalist Baptist background. And when he came out that he was gay, he founded this church. And I was speaking there just for part of the service, you know, two or three minutes, just to let people know who we were. And Larry, my husband, was in the audience and he came, after the service he came up to me with this beautiful young woman. She had blonde hair, and just a lovely person. And he said \"Adele do you recognize who this is?\" And I looked at her and I said, \"Could she be Teddy Davis?\" It was a little girl that had lived, when we lived in the duplex many years ago. And she was five years old and she lived upstairs. And whenever she wanted water, she'd come to our door, 'cause we were downstairs, and she'd asked for the water. And there she was coming over and she said she was a lesbian. And she had not been in touch with her parents for a year and a half. The next day I called her mother, 'cause I didn't know that they were even in Los Angeles. And we got that family together again. So it's always been positive. I've never had a negative reaction. I know when I first told one of my uncles he kind of stared at me and went, \"Aha, aha.\" You know, he wasn't, he didn't know what it was all about, and maybe he had his own ideas. But if your family loves you and respect you enough, they're gonna listen to you. So sometimes it's our own self-esteem that keeps us from telling people. The thing we have to lose is the shame. We have to realize, as I said earlier, that we have nothing to be ashamed about. That we're very proud of our kids. I'm thankful my son survived those terrible years when we didn't understand him. Those years when he was growing up, when he didn't understand what was bothering him. He knew he was different when he was 11, and told us when he was 18, and we didn't really put it all together till he was 23. So he was strong. And I think most of you here have gone through a lot, and you're strong too. And you're our tomorrow. You're really our future. And we love you all, and you get your parents involved, and we'll help them. I wanna thank you. And I understand that if you wanna talk to me informally there'll be lots of that after. So does anyone else have anything else to ask me? Oh, okay.\r\n\r\n- At first when I told my parents\r\n\r\n- I'd-\r\n\r\n- they felt they might've failed somehow. And of course, you know, did everything I asked, they did it. How can we like go in the right door, so let our parents know that they didn't fail?\r\n\r\n- By just tell it. Telling them that this isn't wrong. They didn't make it wrong. Just there's no pattern to the kind of family. Get them some our books to read. There's a whole reading list in the back of the little booklet, there are several little booklets. And there's a brand new booklet that's just great called \"Why Is My Child Gay?\" which was put together by one of our parents who's a medical writer in Washington, DC. And she quotes from some of about adjust, you know, 11 to 12 current by... They are psychologists who were interested in sexuality. Yeah, some of what the current theories are. They just have to look at you and know that you're okay, yeah. That old business of where did I go wrong, no. We did a lot of things right. I think every one of you the fact that you're right here in school now this indicates that they must've done something right. Any other questions? Well. Yeah?\r\n\r\n- Well, what about friends? I came out to a friend who I've known for 10 years. And he of course reacted in the worse way that could've happen to anybody.\r\n\r\n- Yeah, I've heard that, that's I, I think friends you have to kind of know who your friend is. I mean, you have to maybe do a little testing. Talk about gay rights in general, feel them out. It depends on how closely your friends, it depends at what age your friends are when you're telling them. Teenagers might be react in one way, you know, than an older person. I think that coming out to your family is first, unless you have a very close friend. It has to start at home. There are many activists. We have a lot of people active in the Gay Rights Movement now who are trying to change the world, trying to get things changed, you know, whether you're waiting banners or whatever you're doing, and lots of you are doing wonderful things. However, I think the first test has to be coming out to your family, because if you can't do it with your family, we're not gonna change the rest of the world. It has to start there first. It's just too hard to change the world, unless you start at home. You need family support. You have, all your allies are your family. In our family, I would say, each of my children has done something. They're not like me, you know, who's made it a sort of mission in my life, like they do in their own way. My daughter-in-law who teaches in Milwaukee. Several years ago when she was at Penn State. Well, my son was at Penn state. She was teaching as a substitute teacher in a neighboring area. And in a seventh grade Spanish class she heard one kid picked on another kid, you know, derogatory remark, you fag, or something. She stopped the class and she said, \"My brother-in-law is gay. \"And this is no way to call another person.\" And she spent the rest of the period discussing name calling, and how it was wrong, and that they shouldn't do that. And she said, she was sure they'd call her down to the office and tell her she wasn't gonna be called back to teach anymore, and. Nothing happened, it work, it was fine. Each of our children in one way or another, I told you Margo, what she had done in school. Once you start talking about it we get more and more people, it's like planting a seed, you get more seeds, things grow. They've changed things. And if you don't do it with your family it's that much harder.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116069#t=0.0,2845.752"}]}]},{"id":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070","type":"Canvas","label":{"en":["Media File 2 of 2 - 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family.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070#t=36.4,38.81"},{"id":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070/transcript/27947/annotation/15","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"You came out, get them books to read,","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070#t=38.81,41.87"},{"id":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070/transcript/27947/annotation/16","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"get them the 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you.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070#t=50.12,51.37"},{"id":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070/transcript/27947/annotation/21","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"I mean, you know that,","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070#t=52.877,54.46"},{"id":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070/transcript/27947/annotation/22","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"I don't mean proud in the sense that we're 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talk.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070#t=76.73,79.303"},{"id":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070/transcript/27947/annotation/29","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"Any other questions?","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070#t=83.4,85.07"},{"id":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070/transcript/27947/annotation/30","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003e -:\u003c/strong\u003e What my concerns is that my son 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yeah.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070#t=934.254,938.423"},{"id":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070/transcript/27947/annotation/354","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"So tomorrow we will be meeting on that.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070#t=939.38,942.13"},{"id":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070/transcript/27947/annotation/355","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"And Donna, do you have something you'd like to 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parents.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070#t=959.305,961.103"},{"id":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070/transcript/27947/annotation/362","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"We're getting off the ground.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070#t=962.66,965.48"},{"id":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070/transcript/27947/annotation/363","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"\u003cstrong\u003e -:\u003c/strong\u003e Well, if perhaps if any of you here 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Washington.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070#t=998.77,1001.04"},{"id":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070/transcript/27947/annotation/374","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"We have several copies here.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070#t=1001.04,1002.88"},{"id":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070/transcript/27947/annotation/375","type":"Annotation","motivation":"transcribing","body":{"type":"TextualBody","value":"Let's let the parents take them 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I just came out to my parents a couple of month ago and one of their biggest concerns is, they don't want anybody else in my hometown to know. Well, it's kind of like cause my whole hometown knows. But they don't know that, they don't know that everybody else knows. So would it be a good thing for me to let them know that everyone else in town knows?\r\n\r\n- It would be a good thing for you to communicate with your family. You came out, get them books to read, get them the information, get them in touch with some parents. Then they won't be afraid, they won't care if the rest of the town knows, there'll be proud of you. I mean, you know that, I don't mean proud in the sense that we're all, well just because you're gay, we're proud. But I mean, they'll regard you like they did before. Who knows, they won't be ashamed. They'll, let them learn how to handle it, say. Especially when you live in small towns and you're isolated, the point is communicate, talk. Any other questions?\r\n\r\n- What my concerns is that my son is, originally was his safety, both physically and medically, his future and also his job in the job market, he's quite free and vocal about it, he even puts this in his resume. And I just, I couldn't believe it. And he is probably doing the right thing, I don't know, but...\r\n\r\n- Well, that's the personal choice. As far as medically, I think gay people today know better how to take care of themselves than they did 20 years ago. 20 years ago they didn't even know where to go to find out about the whole Pandora's box of diseases that you can get, even before AIDs. But today there's no excuse for any person not to know where to get the proper information and how to take care of themselves. And today they don't have to go meet and learn places and do really, you know, they can meet socially, they can meet at a gay student union, they could meet at some of the various, they know where to find each other and how to take care of themselves. So I think a young man today is much better off than 20 years ago really. Especially with AIDs on the scene. Most of the people who got AIDs didn't know what, we weren't aware of the terrible thing that was out there. Which takes some cases seven years to incubate. You know, it's just been a frightening thing.\r\n\r\n- And I know comparing this will probably the thing is, I've got a lot of docs comparing this in the guideline here but you told us.\r\n\r\n- Yeah, it's rough. It's yeah, it's rough. But take advantage of, are you here in Des Moines?\r\n\r\n- Close.\r\n\r\n- Close, well they're planning to start a group we're gonna be working tomorrow. And I think there's a young woman here, Donna Hart, you know, who is putting it together, do you want? They have a little group going in Des Moines and by all means take advantage of it. You also asked me another question about his job situation. Well, you know, he should listen maybe to your advice but then again, I don't know what, what is his profession, So I don't know.\r\n\r\n- He's done professionally, he does well, he has a good job.\r\n\r\n- Well, he wants to be open and honest. You know, my son is now has his own business, he is a counselor in vocational rehabilitation and he told me just the other day, he says; \"You know Mother, I feel a lot better \"knowing it's my own business.\" He worked for a company that did vocational rehabilitation and couple years ago, he and two others went out on their own.\r\n\r\n- He works and lives in L.A.\r\n\r\n- Well, you know, that's personal. We can't tell him what to do I suppose. As parents we want to let them to be okay. I wanted also tell you that we have an annual convention each year. And the first one was in '82 in Los Angeles, and we've gone all around the country. Last year it was in Detroit and parents, this coming year, this year in October, it's gonna be in Anaheim right next door to Disneyland in California, Orange County. And we get a few hundred about 300 parents came last year. We're hoping we'll have much more this year, come from all over the country, we have two and a half days of workshops, we have lunches, banquet, speakers, plenary sessions, you name it. It's two and a half days of being absorbed with a bunch of parents, pretty much like me, very vocal, active, all kinds of workshops on parents, children coming out, gay couples talking about how they live together. It's very exciting. They'll have something on AIDs workshop, usually we get a doctor coming in and talk about that. And I would recommend that you give Jean, give us your name and address, get on our mailing list and come and join us, we're a growing family.\r\n\r\n- Oh, he's had a little problem within our family, which is surprising me. Our kids range, ages range from 21 to 35 and every one of us, you know, is not lucky, being involved in his family.\r\n\r\n- I'm sorry, I don't follow you. Could you repeat it?\r\n\r\n- I say the family has accepted this.\r\n\r\n- Oh yeah.\r\n\r\n- And such, he has no problem with brothers or sisters.\r\n\r\n- Plus his parents, so he wasn't, he respect that.\r\n\r\n- Well.\r\n\r\n- Still, you know, it's frightening.\r\n\r\n- Yeah, well, it's, it takes time, you know, we've been conditioned to think one way for so many years, it doesn't change overnight. You have to make the effort, you know, to meet his friends, to read. I remember frequently sometimes when we have our little rap sessions a parent would come and say, \"Well I will accept my son \"but I don't wanna meet his lover.\" And another parent will answer, \"Well, gee I'm sorry to hear that \"because I'll accept your son in my home \"but you're telling me you won't accept my son.\" The parent has to start thinking. You know, these are our children. So start meeting these people and you'll be more comfortable with them and you'll realize your son can have a good life. My Phillip and Mike have been together, when one was sick the other was there to help, when was looking for a job the other one was there. They bought their second house with a big mortgage, then recently my son won a raffle and they went on a free trip to Hawaii for two weeks. Well, he was, you know, this is his life, he's at peace. I know that he would have been a wonderful father. And some gay men are having children today through adoption or artificial insemination, I don't think Phillip is gonna do that. But he wanted a peaceful life and he has it.\r\n\r\n- I was gonna say, some of the concerns when you come to the rap group coming...\r\n\r\n- Jane, you wanna come up here?\r\n\r\n- Pardon me?\r\n\r\n- You want to come up here?\r\n\r\n- Oh. I wasn't expecting this. Coming to the parents group, even though you have your family has accepted this and talking I suppose to parents now, but to you who have parents, some of our parents have been coming for several years and they're long down the road to acceptance. So that's not the issue with them, but it's just that this is a place where they can talk with other parents and get some different views and trade ideas and know that this is really a comfortable place because not all parents are, even though they are fully accepting within the family, they may not be ready to step out quite yet and say to everyone that they meet. I know I had to practice for a while in different places where nobody knew me, and it was a conscious effort to do that. But this is what's so wonderful about the parents flag groups is that parents can come there and kind of let down their hair. And you're with other people that are probably voicing some of the same concerns.\r\n\r\n- Yeah sure. Are the rap groups that you're talking about like say that person had never been to a meeting before, they come for the first night. I don't think they would be real thrilled if it it was about a big protest that was going on or something like.\r\n\r\n- Ah.\r\n\r\n- So, I mean, I don't know if the group is in the middle of something that's been going on, they've been meeting about for weeks and weeks then they come for the first time and they're right in the middle of something, they are always in, the new person coming to them.\r\n\r\n- Each group, I think like any other organization has different chapters, each chapter has its own climate but there's generally a great deal of consideration for the fact that we need to have our program and whatever activity is going on that evening be something that a person who is a new parent would be comfortable with. That's our basic, basic focus. The idea is to move from there over time into reading and learning and hearing more experiences. What our particular group is and the format is, and I'm not sure whether this is the way that it is everywhere is, where we have a short program usually maybe half an hour worth of kind of program and sort of interaction and announcements. And then we count off and go into smaller groups. And if you want to share, you may, otherwise you can just listen. And I can remember one set of parents and Adele will meet them in a couple of days. The first time they came to, \"we're not gonna say anything, \"we're just here to listen\" and kept their mouth shut. But by the time the evening was over they had become comfortable enough or else they were all so full of having kept her mouth shut for so long. I mean, yeah. And they have been our staunchest supporters and continue to come.\r\n\r\n- And another thing, you see parents go through stages versus, all right, we love our son, we'll accept them and so forth. And when they come to the meeting, it's like, they go through different stages then. We know they're making progress when after the initial stage they start asking about how to come out to a friend or a family member, to the next step. Or they'll come and tell us in one week that, oh, they had, someone said something at work and they were able to respond in a certain way. Or they wrote a letter or something like that. It's slowly become more and more about each group. Another thing I can suggest to some of you people here is, you don't just tell your parents to go to a meeting if you happen to live in the same city, bring them to the meeting. It's very difficult for parents to make that first step to cross that threshold. So we make it easy. Now in Los Angeles, what we do, we have several reps, we usually have four groups going. We count off, one, two, three, four, so that within the family, each member is in a different group and that makes each family member less inhibited too. They'll talk a little more freely if their son is not in the same group, even the husband and wife may not wanna be in the same group. And it works. You know, we wouldn't be all doing this if it didn't work, because we're all volunteers. We don't, you know, it's really a labor of love. And what drives us, I guess we do it because it works, you know, and it gives us a great feeling of fulfillment that we're doing something for our children, it needs to be done. But it's hard to make that first step. And of course some people sometimes come and don't come back again, and they're the losers, really. Because if they, if you don't work at something you're not gonna learn. And we have so much to relearn.\r\n\r\n- We have a number of gay people that come to our group before, and they come out to their parents.\r\n\r\n- You stay here.\r\n\r\n- She's your local person.\r\n\r\n- We have a number of gay people that come to us before they come out to their parents, to get some ideas and one woman read everything that she could get her hands on and then kind of practiced on us. And then when it actually came down to the time that she came out, she said, \"you know, I really didn't remember any of that stuff I was trying to practice.\" She did what came naturally at that particular point. But that, as Adele said, take your parents or go first and kind of spot maybe somebody that you think they'd be compatible with. So you've got kind of a lay of the land yourself, is something that will help. Rural areas are difficult though. Living in Nebraska, I know about rural areas.\r\n\r\n- Well, I want you to know that even in Los Angeles where, we have so many different peoples living in, we have the Hispanic community, which feels that, oh, no, they have that macho thing to put up with, so they have their problems. We have the Asian community and you know how honor or family honor is, they practically, we had one couple last week, the mother was just weeping all through. You know, it's just very hard on some of these. And so each, the black community for a long time some black people would tell me that, they say when they told their mother, the mother said, \"Oh this couldn't be in our family \"it's a white man's problem.\" You know, it's, each community thinks it's someplace else but the truth of the matter is that we have gay people all over and it shouldn't be a problem but unfortunately it is. Frequently we have people coming to our meetings, gay men and women who come to us just because we're like surrogate parents for them because they can't go home. And we in a way are giving them some kind of support. Having gay people at our meeting is a good thing for parents. Frequently the only people they know who are gay are their own children and they think they're different. Parents have to know that their child is not the exception. The exception is the flamboyant gay that they've been accustomed to see. So for those of you who are parents here, I say, try it, what have you got to lose? Yeah.\r\n\r\n- What's available in this area, are there groups available in this area?\r\n\r\n- Are they available in?\r\n\r\n- In this area.\r\n\r\n- In this area, well we're trying to get one going in Des Moines. We used to have some contacts but I don't think they were very good nothing seemed to work, yeah. So tomorrow we will be meeting on that. And Donna, do you have something you'd like to say?\r\n\r\n- Yeah, we started meeting in January, at Des Moines Valley Friends House and we meet the first and third Saturday of each month at one o'clock, and we've had anywhere from three to eight people coming and free supportive parents. We're getting off the ground.\r\n\r\n- Well, if perhaps if any of you here tonight, would like to leave your name and address to Donna, perhaps Donna, are you sending flyers out?\r\n\r\n- I usually call everybody since it's only eight people, usually I call each time but I also have some cards that I've sent out.\r\n\r\n- She'll let you know when they have the meetings and you know that people get involved, while you'll have a group going. Okay, we also have a national newsletter that you can get very easily from Washington. We have several copies here. Let's let the parents take them first, cause I don't think there's enough to go around.","format":"text/plain"},"target":"https://iastate.aviaryplatform.com/collections/2486/collection_resources/43247/file/116070#t=0.0,1012.224"}]}]}]}